Licensed Clinical Psychologist

New York & Connecticut · Telepsychology available in 42 states

A place to
think, heal,
and grow.

Victoria C. Demos, PhD

Offering psychotherapy and psychoanalysis grounded in a relational approach, with warmth, rigor, and deep respect for your individual experience.

"As long as a patient continues to come at all, the last thread of hope has not snapped."

Sándor Ferenczi

About Dr. Demos

Decades of experience,
a lifetime of dedication.

Dr. Victoria Demos is a licensed clinical psychologist with a practice in New York City and Fairfield, CT. Telepsychology sessions are available by appointment for clients throughout both states and 42 states nationwide.

She works with individuals and groups navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, life transitions, and longer-term challenges such as creative blocks and social isolation. She also supports individuals with Executive Functioning Disorder in building sustainable organization and achieving meaningful goals.

Dr. Demos believes in a collaborative, tailored approach, drawing on a range of theoretical perspectives to meet each person where they are, at a pace that honors their comfort and growth.

Her specialty in Relational Psychoanalysis and the intergenerational transmission of trauma informs both her clinical work and her writing, teaching, and presenting in the field.

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Education & Appointments

PhD in Clinical Psychology Hahnemann University, Philadelphia, PA
Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy & Psychoanalysis New York University
National Endowment for the Humanities Grant Study of Psychoanalysis & History at Yale University
Faculty & Supervisory Appointments The Stephen Mitchell Relational Study Center · National Institute for the Psychotherapies · Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy · Westchester Center for the Study of Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy
Former Faculty Marymount College (now Fordham University Marymount) · University of Pennsylvania

Areas of Practice

What we work
through together.

Using a range of theoretical frameworks adapted to your individual needs, Dr. Demos creates a warm, empathic environment where you can reflect at your own pace and find your way forward.

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma
Relationship Issues
Life Transitions
Career Stress & Change
Creative & Writer's Block
Burnout
Performance Anxiety
Divorce
ADHD
Executive Functioning
Social Isolation
Teens
University Students
Coaching & Goal-Setting

Scholarship & Presentations

Publications &
Presentations.

Publications

  • Demos, V.C. & Harris, A.H. (2018). Heart melts forward: The collected papers of Emmanuel Ghent. New York, NY: Routledge.
  • Demos, V.C. (2017). When the frame breaks: Ripple effects of sexual boundary violations. Psychoanalytic Psychology, 34(2), 201-207.
  • Prout, M.F., Demos, V.C., & Morrow, N.S. (2001). Unipolar depression in adults; clinical considerations in assessment and brief psychotherapy interventions. In L. VandeCreek and T.L. Jackson (Eds.), Innovations in clinical practice: A source book, 19 (pp. 5-16). Florida: Professional Resource Press, Inc.
  • Morrow, N.S., Prout, M.F., & Demos, V.C. (2001). Pharmacologic considerations in the management of broad-spectrum mood disorders in adults. In L. VandeCreek and T.L. Jackson (Eds.), Innovations in clinical practice: A source book, 19 (pp. 17-34). Florida: Professional Resource Press, Inc.
  • Demos, V.C. & Prout, M.F. (1994). A review of scales for the brief assessment of anxiety. In L. VandeCreek, S. Knapp and T.L. Jackson (Eds.), Innovations in clinical practice: A source book, 13 (pp. 167-178). Florida: Professional Resource Exchange, Inc.
  • Demos, V.C. (1993). A developmental framework for supervisors: Comments on Kane, Tryon and Halligan. Journal of College Student Psychotherapy, 8 (pp. 23-28).
  • Prout, M.F. & Demos, V.C. (1993). The diagnosis and treatment of adult anxiety disorders. In L. VandeCreek, S. Knapp and T.L. Jackson (Eds.), Innovations in clinical practice: A source book, 12 (pp. 65-83). Florida: Professional Resource Exchange, Inc.
  • Demos, V.C. & Prout, M.F. (1993). A comparison of seven approaches to brief psychotherapy. International Journal of Short Term Psychotherapy, 8 (pp. 3-22).
  • Prout, M.F. & Demos, V.C. (1991). Assessment and treatment of mood disorders. In P. Keller and S. Hyman (Eds.), Innovations in clinical practice: A source book, 10 (pp. 153-178). Florida: Professional Resource Exchange, Inc.

Presentations

  • Demos, V. (2021, February). Foundations of Relational Analysis. Presented at the Steven Mitchell Center for Relational Studies, New York, New York.
  • Demos, V. (2017, April). Sexual boundary violations: A town hall meeting to confront the silence. Presented at the Division 39 Meeting of the American Psychological Association (APA), New York, New York.
  • Demos, V. (2017, April). Witness for the world: Mastering personal trauma by witnessing global trauma. Paper presented at the Division 39 Meeting of the American Psychological Association (APA), New York, New York.
  • Harris, A.H. & Demos, V. (2015, June). Heart melts forward: The collected work of Emmanuel Ghent. Pre-conference workshop presented at the 12th Annual Conference of the International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy (IARPP), Toronto, Canada.
  • Demos, V. (2013, April). A modern Odyssey: Uncovering and treating repercussions of traumatic experience in immigration. Paper presented at the Division 39 Meeting of the American Psychological Association (APA), Boston, MA.

Common Questions

Everything you need
to know before starting.

Are sessions available in person or virtually? +

Dr. Demos offers both in-person sessions at her New York City and Fairfield, CT locations, as well as telepsychology sessions via a secure video or telephonic platform. Many clients have found that meaningful and productive work continues virtually. You and Dr. Demos will choose the format that works best for you.

What can I expect during my sessions? +

Each session is designed to make you feel welcomed, comfortable, and safe. Everything discussed is strictly confidential. The goal is to help you develop new ways of thinking and apply what you learn to your everyday life, and you will feel respected and recognized in every session.

How long are sessions? +

Initial consultations are 55 minutes. Subsequent sessions are 45 minutes each.

Does Dr. Demos accept insurance? +

Dr. Demos is an in-network provider with Wellfleet Insurance. For other plans, you may submit invoices from your sessions for out-of-network reimbursement. Please reach out to discuss your specific insurance situation.

What is the cost per session? +

Session rates are available upon request. A sliding scale is also available, so please don't hesitate to ask.

How do I get started? +

Visit Dr. Demos' Psychology Today profile to get in touch and schedule an appointment.

Get in Touch

Begin your
journey.

New York City

300 Mercer Street, Suite 3L
New York, NY 10003

Connecticut

1559 Post Road
Fairfield, CT 06824

Phone

(917) 406-2456

Telepsychology

Available in 42 states

How to Reach Dr. Demos

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